Today my parents came to look for me to do some company documents. So while i’m doing those documents we chatted some topics - UMNO election results, the house condition and family issues.

I found out from my mother that 1 of my friend  since primary school(so called “friend” of mine) is having some issues. His family is i would say rich, live in semi-D, drive big cars and got maid. He had a younger sister and younger brother. So here’s where the problem begin:

2 years ago, his sister finished form5, and insisted to go college and not form6. So the parents sent her to KTAR. After a week, she stopped because she couldn’t get used to the life(reason given is have to wash clothes sendiri susahlah, food not nice blablabla…..). I was like serve u right bitch!!!so much for scolding and ordering the maid around back at house. So wasted the money for college, “sei sei hei” study form6.

Now she finish form6 dy, father want to send her to Indonesia to do medicine or dentristy.  But now another issue is at hand:the youngest brother finished form5 and wanted to go A level. He wanted study in a college in KL(not sure what name)  because got cover law topics, so he can skip credits when he take law degree later. So next week gonna start sem and until now still haven’t prepare or confirm yet.So the parents pun pening kepala figuring how to put 3kids through college. Even their mother now have to take up a full time job. My heart is like laughing maniacally upon hearing this good news. The reason is iDO have a grudge with that “friend” of mine.

So such problems arise when parents aren’t being open with the kids. The kids should know of the family situation so they will figure out alternative solutions(if they are rational which i doubt they are). Parents should also teach kids to be more independent, not maid dependant. I was lucky i’m not like this spoilt brats.